Spark People and THE Resolve

I'm probably the last person to stumble upon the "Spark" people...but it's worth a mention....

I signed up for 3-goals this week. I like a goal driven philosophy - -here they are:

1. Get 8 hours of sleep a night
2. Save $5 a day
3. Run/Walk - 5 miles this week.

All of which do not seem taxing at all and in a way can give me something to track that's tangible.

Sleeping, saving and stepping are all good for the soul.

I have started to pull the divorce trigger...quite liberating. Spoke to a long standing acquaintance on Friday, she found her husband filandered. She was so hurt; but empowered. She took this as the opportunity to get her life in order. Divorced him, took 6 weeks completeley and she isn't looking back. She's a woman that used to work for me and she's given me the inspiration to finally do it.

I got the courage, and called...then got stuck in a phone-mail-tag-telephone-tree-net that was just unforgiving and really unacceptable. I did leave several messages. I saved the money, I want to do this. It is time. The big question is: how do you get him to move out ?

It is daunting...why won't he just leave? I believe because he cannot. He does not have the direction, options or faith in himself to do it. It is time, it is time...OH, it's so time...

Now time to go for a walk - -it's one of my resolves for the week...time to breath deeply and be thankful.

Gratitude is an interesting thing...I would like to thank my sponsors:

1. My childhood friend (AM) that always knows how to make me laugh - -and she just loves to eat.
2. My cousin "J", that made me feel loved- in a maternal way for the first time in a very, very long time.
3. Surf-and-Turf Market for having the most nutritious and delicious food on the planet, and
4. The "coffee gods" - that get me motivated to do my expense accounts (and I should be grateful that I have expense account access).

With love,

Kit